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Chronic Illness Burnout, Spoon Theory and How Counselling Can Help

Living with a chronic illness can be an overwhelming and exhausting experience. The constant management of symptoms, medical appointments, and the emotional toll it takes can lead to what is known as chronic illness burnout. This type of burnout is not only physically draining but also emotionally and mentally taxing. This blog post by Carly from Thrive Counselling Solutions Adelaide aims to shed light on this issue, introduce Spoon Theory and offer strategies for managing and overcoming chronic illness burnout.


What is Chronic Illness Burnout?

Chronic illness burnout is a state of physical, emotional, and mental exhaustion that occurs when the ongoing stress of managing a chronic illness becomes too much to handle. It can manifest in various ways, including:

  • Physical Fatigue: Persistent tiredness that doesn’t improve with rest.

  • Emotional Exhaustion: Feeling overwhelmed, helpless, or hopeless.

  • Mental Fatigue: Difficulty concentrating, making decisions, or remembering things.

  • Reduced Motivation: A lack of interest in activities that were once enjoyable.


Common Causes of Chronic Illness Burnout

Several factors contribute to chronic illness burnout, including:

  • Continuous Management: The need for constant vigilance and management of symptoms can be exhausting.

  • Medical Appointments: Frequent visits to healthcare providers can be time-consuming and draining.

  • Financial Strain: The cost of treatments, medications, and potential loss of income can add to the stress.

  • Social Isolation: Chronic illness can lead to isolation from friends and family, which exacerbates feelings of loneliness.

  • Emotional Toll: Coping with the emotional impact of a chronic illness, such as anxiety and depression, can be overwhelming.


Signs and Symptoms

Recognising the signs and symptoms of chronic illness burnout is crucial for addressing it effectively. Some common indicators include:

  • Increased Irritability: Feeling more irritable or short-tempered than usual.

  • Withdrawal: Isolating oneself from social activities and relationships.

  • Sleep Disturbances: Experiencing difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep.

  • Loss of Appetite: Changes in eating habits, such as a loss of appetite or overeating.

  • Negative Thinking: Persistent negative thoughts and feelings of hopelessness.


Spoon Theory Explained

Spoon Theory uses “spoons” as a unit of energy, and was developed in 2003 by Christine Miserandino to describe her experience with lupus on her website 'But You Don't Look Sick'. The basic idea is that you have a limited number of spoons on any given day and different activities require a certain number of spoons. 


In addition to allowing countless people to feel seen and understood in their experiences, Spoon Theory provides a common language for chronically ill people to use with each other. It can also be useful for family and friends who may struggle to understand why a chronically ill person’s energy may appear to vary from hour-to-hour, or day-to-day.

A link to Christine's original article explaining Spoon Theory can be found here: https://tinyurl.com/ThriveSpoonTheory



Thrive Counselling Adelaide


Professional Help

If you or someone you know is struggling with chronic illness burnout, professional help can make a significant difference. Carly offers tailored support for individuals dealing with the complexities of chronic illness. At Thrive Counselling, Carly's approach focuses on building resilience, developing coping strategies, and enhancing overall well-being.


Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Reach out for support, take proactive steps to manage your stress, and prioritise your well-being. Chronic illness burnout is challenging, but with the right tools and support, it is possible to regain a sense of balance and fulfilment in life.

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